after talking with violet the last couple of days, i have come to realize that i have a hard time communicating my ideas some of the time. i mean over the years i have gotten better about the whole thing, and this outlet certainly has given me time to practice, but sometimes i say things that are easily misinterpeted. in order to make myself feel better, i am going to blame common usage of the english language. at least then it is not my fault. heh...